Cuffing season is definitely among us, along with this season comes the booty call. In order to be an adult about it and to be successful we have to know how to handle the booty call. A lot of good things have a dwindled, because someone fumbled in prime time. Learn how to be a master of the night. Here are 6 Tips on How to Have a Successful Booty Call:

Perfect Hours

I heard on Mary Jane that “you want to have a booty call where it’s not too early to make dinner, but also not too late to be a lazy lay.” You’ve got to find that sweet spot where everyone is alert, but the night is still seductive and complementary to good sex and a great experience.

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Be Direct

Be direct in your intentions. Sometimes it’s OK to insinuate, but you never want someone to come to your house and have felt led on. Nothing’s worse than traveling to a woman’s house and it’s not exactly going the way you planned on. Ladies and fellas just be explicit with the things you want, if someone’s not down for it that’s okay too.

Clean and Carefree Space

No one wants to step in an unkempt house and we all want our host to pay attention to us. So if you have work, homework, and emails that you need to get to- that should’ve been done before he/she got get there. You want to offer a calm space where you can give your full attention to you guest.

Bring Protection

Always always bring protection, nothing is more heart wrenching than the situation getting heavy and heated and you don’t have any prophylactics to get it popping. Next time is not always guaranteed- you have to take advantage of things when they come to you and you don’t want to ruin the mood by having to make a rubber run.

What to Wear

Three things come to my mind when thinking of what to wear for a booty call; comfortable, easy access, and not sloppy. You want to look relaxed, but not like you don’t care. You want to be intentional, but not like you’re overdoing it. There’s a delicate balance on how-to look when stopping through for a booty call, especially if you guys don’t already have an established routine. To me the best thing to wear for a booty call is very fresh and modern athletic wear, after-all things are going to get physical.

Know When to Stay or When to Go

OK so you had the booty call and got your nut, but you don’t know whether to stay or to go. You don’t want to stay and look clingy, but you also don’t want to leave abruptly and make someone feel used. You can usually tell by someone’s body language, if they cuddle and spoon they may want you to stay. If they go and wash up, they may want you to take the hint and leave. However, nothing is wrong with just straight out asking, if someone wants to stay.

When’s the last time you had a booty call? How was it? What advice could you give about having a successful booty call?

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